Reine was recently diagnosed with ODD tendencies in January of 2017. We began going to Behavioral therapy immediately. Reine’s Behavioral therapist is well worth the hour long trip (one way) each week to see her. The therapist has given us a light at the end of what has been a dark tunnel. We dove in headfirst and have been implementing everything since.
“Wait” Cards and Timer:
The first thing the Behavioralist had us do was use “Wait” cards and a timer with Reine. The reason for the cards was that Reine would get livid if she asked us to do something or to get her something and her needs were not met in that instant. She could not make the connection between waiting for a few seconds and her needs being met. The “Wait” cards and timer have done just that.
I created mermaid themed “Wait” cards for Reine and laminated them. The cards are placed in a container (with a magnet) on my fridge along with 2 different timers. We focus on using the timer for 10-15 second sessions with the max time of 2 minutes (only when I need to do something like wash my hands).
Reine: Mommy, I am thirsty.
Me: Ok, give me a sec to get you a drink.
Reine picks out a “Wait” card and brings me a timer.I set the timer for 10 seconds. She uses the “Wait” card as a place holder. It tells her that her needs will be met she just has to wait. The timer is set for 10 seconds and handed to her. She presses start and watches the time go down. Once it beeps, she hands it back to me along with the card and I get her a drink immediately.
Me: Thank you, Reine, for waiting as patiently as you could while the timer counted down.
Reine: No problem.