Doctor’s Appointments

Reine has a very large and hefty fear of doctor’s appointments. If she has to have blood work or a vaccine, it is almost crippling. Anxiety will set in, to the point that she experiences panic attacks and causes herself to vomit, have loose stools, and even shake uncontrollably. This is something we have been working through together for almost 2 years now. It has been a slow process. But we have it down to a science now.

I start about 2 weeks before any appointment and begin to talk to her about what they will be doing and what she can expect from this appointment. We decide who else will be coming with her to the appointment besides myself (sometimes her oldest sister has to be there for extra moral support).

We spend the week before the appointment going over everything several times a day until the day of the appointment. By everything, I mean everything. From who will be with her that day, to how we will be checking in, to who she see that appointment. If she is seeing a nurse first, then she is prepped for the intake and everything the nurse will do. If the doctor is seeing her as well, she is prepped for what the doctor will be doing. If she needs blood work or a vaccine, BUZZY is with us and she knows exactly what is going to happen step by step.

  • What time we will get up that day.
  • What outfit she will wear.
  • Who will be with her that day other than Mommy?
  • What time we will be leaving for the appointment.
  • Where the doctor’s office is located.
  • What this particular appointment is for.
  • How we will be checking into the office.who she see that appointment. I
  • Who she see at that appointment, doctor, nurse, both.
  • If she is seeing a nurse only, then she is prepped for the intake and everything the nurse will do. Taking her height measurements, weighing her, checking her body temp, checking her blood pressure and pulse ox. Asking her and I questions.
  • If she is seeing the nurse for intake and the doctor after, she is prepped for what the doctor will be doing. Asking her questions, pushing on her tummy, listening to her heart, listening to her lungs, shining the light into her eyes, nose, and ears.
  • If she needs blood work or a vaccine, BUZZY is with us and she knows exactly what is going to happen step by step before we get there.

Letting her know what is going to happen is crucial for Reine. She needs to have her million and one questions answered and her fears validated and calmed before we even enter the doctor’s offices. It is how she is learning that these appointments are needed to help keep her healthy and that together, we can conquer her fears together.

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Buzzy

When I tell you that Reine is terrified of “bloodshots” AKA needles, I am not exaggerating at all. Her older sis is the same way. Where they got this from is completely beyond me. While her father, oldest sister, and myself do not exactly love the thought of getting stabbed with a tiny metal tube, we do not fear it either. It is more like “Can we please just get this over with so that I can move on with my day?”. They, on the other hand, freak the hell out. It takes 5 plus people to hold them down for any blood work that they need. Vaccines included. Reine would be so terrified that she would make herself physically sick (vomiting, loose stools, and shaking uncontrollably) when she found out about anything she needed relating to a needle. So, I knew needed to find something to help them get through the sheer panic of just hearing the words blood work or vaccine. Lavander essential oil was just not enough to calm their nerves.

I stumbled across Buzzy in my quest to find something to help them and decided to give this little gadget a try. For those of you not familiar with this device, it is a small “insect” shaped device that uses a patented Cool-Pulse™ technology. In their own words “Buzzy® uses natural “gate control” pain relief by confusing the body’s own nerves, thereby dulling or eliminating sharp pain. In the same way that rubbing a bumped elbow helps stop the hurt, or cool running water soothes a burn, Buzzy® controls sharp pain.” 

You can purchase a Buzzy either on their site or via Amazon.com. They come in 2 sizes, mini or XL. They also have a couple of accessories you can purchase separately or you can just buy a kit that contains their distraction cards, bravery stickers, and a kazoo for all ages. The kits start at about $50. It may seem steep, but for us, it has been worth every freaking penny of it. I am not sure if the kazoo is still a part of their kit or not, but it came with ours and is a favorite distraction tool. If you are a professional looking into Buzzy, for your office, they got you covered there too. Seriously, I am in love with the neoprene cooler bag. Ours did not come with it. We got our kit in a small clear tote.

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Our Experience:
Buzzy works to help relieve most (if not all) of the pain from vaccines and “bloodshots”. It also calms both of my kids down by more than 60%. There is no longer a need for 5 people to hold them still. It is usually just myself. I am not saying that they still do not cry or have a couple of minutes of panic, but it is not such a fight anymore. They will not have anything done with needles without Buzzy with us.

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Disclaimer:

I am not affiliated with Buzzy in any way. I did not receive any compensation or product for a discounted rate or free for this post. I just wanted to share something that has worked incredibly well for Reine and her sister. All Buzzy pics in this post are from the Buzzy website. Seriously, you should check them out!

Here is their link if you missed it in the post.